Flirtini gives its AI assistant a spicy upgrade to help men sext smarter and women feel respected
Fliry, Flirtini’s clever and confident AI assistant, was originally designed to help you master the art of flirting. Think smooth one-liners that are impossible to ignore, conversation starters that keep matches on their toes, and cheeky compliments that actually land.
However, users weren’t just turning to Fliry to help them get the girl or guy. They were turning to her for conversation… and often much more. Our anonymous analytics and feedback showed that users were interested in Fliry as much more than a wingwoman. They wanted an AI sexting partner, and they were turning up the temperature and making the conversation steamy with every message.
But Fliry wasn’t interested. She was built with boundaries, and she wasn’t interested in love, romance, or sexual messages.
Now? She flirts back.
Say hello to Fliry’s spicy side – Flirty Mood, a special mode of Flirtin’s AI assistant willing to shed her modesty and show off her seductive side.
Whether you want to practice sexting, warm up before messaging a match, try out a risqué opener, or explore sexually, Fliry’s down to talk dirty, indulge your fantasies, and explore your sexy side without shame.
She’s got you – no shame, no screenshots. Just the freedom to say what you really want to say and do what you really want to do.
The realities of sexting in dating apps – and how AI can help

Let’s be honest – we all love to flirt. And when the mood is right and the match is hot? Most of us are down to turn up the heat. Half of men (51%) say sexting in dating apps is exciting and pleasurable, some 32% believe it helps get to know a potential partner better and 22% think it’s a way to explore themselves and their desires, while 39% of women admit they love it when the conversation takes a naughty turn.
But flirty messages don’t always hit the spot.
While 56% of men say their sexy messages have been well-received, over a quarter (27%) were left on read – or unmatched entirely. And 5% got roasted or rejected so bad they felt stupid for even trying.
Women, on the other hand, are drowning in DMs they never asked for (or worse, unwanted dick pics). In fact, 78% of women have received unsolicited nudes from people they’ve just matched with, with 16% saying they are sick of receiving dick pics.
Clearly, there’s a need for more practice and better sexting etiquette.
That’s where AI can slide into the chat. Nearly half of men (48%) would like to “warm up” with an AI partner before sexting with a real match, because for someone it will help to build their confidence (38%), teach them what’s okay to send (21%), and provide a safe space to explore (17%).
And women are all here for it: 50% say it’s a great idea. It would cut down on cringy messages (36%), build respect (26%), and teach pushy men to respect boundaries (18%).
AI would give all users what they desire. For men, it would help turn awkwardness into art. And for women? More respectful, thoughtful conversations that take a dirty turn only when everyone is interested.
And Flirtini users are into it
Early testing shows 67% gave AI sexting a go just out of curiosity, while 33% wanted to practice their sexting skills or brush off the nerves before trying their luck with a real match.
With her unmatched confidence and effortless charm, Fliry didn’t disappoint – 63% of users said they felt more self-assured after chatting with her, 35% - even turned on.
And that confidence boost carries over into real dating: 58% say Flirty Mood made them feel more confident chatting with real matches. Likewise, 7% say it reduced their dating anxiety.
Some 12% said it inspired them, and 21% called it fun and playful. But Fliry’s best feature? The freedom. Some 58% say it’s the lack of judgment that they love most about Flirty Mood.
After all, Fliry isn’t another AI girlfriend or dirty chatbot for users to get their fix. It’s about practicing with someone who’s always game, always respectful, and always on your level – so when real sparks start to fly, you’re just not ready; you’re irresistible.
Methodology:
All of the above data was obtained from surveys conducted among Flirtini users. A total of 2,500 people were surveyed: 1,000 male users, 1,000 female users, and 500 early users of Flirty Mood (all male). All participants were active daters from the US and UK, aged 18 and older.
