Irresistible opening messages that your matches will find hard to ignore

More and more people are seeking love online, but getting the conversation going can be a real struggle. If your opening message is anything short of a perfect 10, chances are your match will leave you on read. If you’re short of inspiration, AI can act as the perfect wingman. Analyzing users’ experience with its AI assistant ‘Fliry’, the Flirtini dating app team found that 61% of men find flirty messages work best, while one in three women ask AI to add a touch of humor to their messages. Using this data, Flirtini has created a list of opening lines that are bound to get the conversation flowing.

Flirty Messages for Men:

💬 Are you a magician? Because whenever I look at your pictures, everyone else disappears.

💬 I must be a snowflake because I've fallen for you. Cheesy, right? But seriously, your smile caught my attention.

💬 I have a challenge for you. Guess which emoji doesn't belong in the row: 😉😊😍😘. If you get it right, you owe me a conversation.

💬 Is your name Google? Because you've got everything I've been searching for.

💬 I was blinded by your beauty; I'm going to need your name and number for insurance purposes.

💬 Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I un-match and swipe right again?

💬 If beauty were time, you'd be an eternity. How about we grab a coffee and discuss the mysteries of the universe?

💬 If you were a vegetable, you'd be a cute-cumber. Now that I've impressed you with my wit, how about we chat?

💬 Do you have a map? I keep getting lost in your profile pictures.

Humorous Messages for Women:

💬 They say laughter is the best medicine, your profile picture must be a cure for all ailments.

💬 Do you have a Band-Aid? Because I just scraped my knee falling for you. Kidding, but seriously, nice profile!

💬 Is your name Wi-fi? Because I'm feeling a connection. Also, who takes that many selfies with dogs? Impressive.

💬 I was blinded by your beauty; I’m going to need your number for my eye test appointment.

💬 If we were at home, cuddling on a Sunday morning, what kind of trouble would you want to get into? Also, do people really find love on these apps?

💬 I was blinded by your beauty; I’m going to need your name and number for my research project on stunning individuals.

💬 Do you believe in love at first swipe, or should I un-match and swipe up again?

💬 If you were a cat, how many lives would you have used up by now? Bonus points if you include your best cat impression.

💬 If you were a vegetable, you'd be a cute-cumber. Now that I've impressed you with my wit, how about we discuss our favorite movies?

💬 I’m not a photographer, but I can definitely picture us getting tacos together. What’s your go-to taco topping?

Anastasiya Pochotna, a dating expert and Growth Marketing Specialist at Flirtini adds:

“You don't get a second chance to make a strong first impression, so the first message is the most important. ‘Hi, how are you?’ won't cut it — You need to make some effort. Take a minute to scroll through their profile, figure out what will grab their attention, and then put together a personalized opener that shows off your funny and flirty sides. But whatever you do, don't let the conversation turn into an interrogation. Being too direct and asking back-to-back questions are likely to get you blocked. Avoid generic statements such as ‘You’re so beautiful’ too — They will know you've sent the exact same message to hundreds before them. And if you don't get an answer? Desperation won't secure you a date… Move on and find someone who's actually down to chat.”