Irresistible opening messages that your matches will find hard to ignore

Written by Flirtini team
04/19/2024

More and more people are seeking love online, but getting the conversation going can be a real struggle. If your opening message is anything short of a perfect 10, chances are your match will leave you on read. If you’re short of inspiration, AI can act as the perfect wingman. Analyzing users’ experience with its AI assistant β€˜Fliry’, the Flirtini dating app team found that 61% of men find flirty messages work best, while one in three women ask AI to add a touch of humor to their messages. Using this data, Flirtini has created a list of opening lines that are bound to get the conversation flowing.

Flirty Messages for Men:

πŸ’¬ Are you a magician? Because whenever I look at your pictures, everyone else disappears.

πŸ’¬ I must be a snowflake because I've fallen for you. Cheesy, right? But seriously, your smile caught my attention.

πŸ’¬ I have a challenge for you. Guess which emoji doesn't belong in the row: πŸ˜‰πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜πŸ˜˜. If you get it right, you owe me a conversation.

πŸ’¬ Is your name Google? Because you've got everything I've been searching for.

πŸ’¬ I was blinded by your beauty; I'm going to need your name and number for insurance purposes.

πŸ’¬ Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I un-match and swipe right again?

πŸ’¬ If beauty were time, you'd be an eternity. How about we grab a coffee and discuss the mysteries of the universe?

πŸ’¬ If you were a vegetable, you'd be a cute-cumber. Now that I've impressed you with my wit, how about we chat?

πŸ’¬ Do you have a map? I keep getting lost in your profile pictures.

Humorous Messages for Women:

πŸ’¬ They say laughter is the best medicine, your profile picture must be a cure for all ailments.

πŸ’¬ Do you have a Band-Aid? Because I just scraped my knee falling for you. Kidding, but seriously, nice profile!

πŸ’¬ Is your name Wi-fi? Because I'm feeling a connection. Also, who takes that many selfies with dogs? Impressive.

πŸ’¬ I was blinded by your beauty; I’m going to need your number for my eye test appointment.

πŸ’¬ If we were at home, cuddling on a Sunday morning, what kind of trouble would you want to get into? Also, do people really find love on these apps?

πŸ’¬ I was blinded by your beauty; I’m going to need your name and number for my research project on stunning individuals.

πŸ’¬ Do you believe in love at first swipe, or should I un-match and swipe up again?

πŸ’¬ If you were a cat, how many lives would you have used up by now? Bonus points if you include your best cat impression.

πŸ’¬ If you were a vegetable, you'd be a cute-cumber. Now that I've impressed you with my wit, how about we discuss our favorite movies?

πŸ’¬ I’m not a photographer, but I can definitely picture us getting tacos together. What’s your go-to taco topping?

Anastasiya Pochotna, a dating expert and Growth Marketing Specialist at Flirtini adds:

β€œYou don't get a second chance to make a strong first impression, so the first message is the most important. β€˜Hi, how are you?’ won't cut it β€” You need to make some effort. Take a minute to scroll through their profile, figure out what will grab their attention, and then put together a personalized opener that shows off your funny and flirty sides. But whatever you do, don't let the conversation turn into an interrogation. Being too direct and asking back-to-back questions are likely to get you blocked. Avoid generic statements such as β€˜You’re so beautiful’ too β€” They will know you've sent the exact same message to hundreds before them. And if you don't get an answer? Desperation won't secure you a date… Move on and find someone who's actually down to chat.”

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